Good For You, Good For Your Children

Most parents are doting parents who want to give their children everything, but there is a point where it is just too much. This is particularly true for parents who are only planning on having one child or who have had difficulty conceiving. Parents need to remember that balance is the key to raising a happy and healthy child.

Adult Time

No matter how much you love being with your children, you need time to yourself and time with your spouse. If you give up every semblance of a life outside of your children, you are bound to raise kids who expect a bit too much. When you set aside alone time and date night with hubby, you are also teaching your children a valuable lesson about family and relationships.

If you don’t have family nearby who can babysit, find yourself a local teen who can fill in when you’re gone. Word of mouth is the best route to take when hiring a babysitter, but there are also online agencies who can help you to find someone in your area. Search for a SitterCity review online so that you can read testimonials from other parents who have managed to use them to take care of their babysitting needs.

Chores

Although your children may think you are trying to torture them by assigning chores, having them take some responsibility for their things is the best way to teach them responsibility and a good work ethic. And when you can check some items off of your own list of things to do, you’ll have more time to spend with your children.

Each child will respond to chores in their own way, and you need to find the method that works best for you. You can have a chart put up and assign stars for a job well done, or make an allowance the reward for completing chores. Some children respond well to a structured set of chores and a bit of autonomy. On Saturday mornings, for example, give your children a list of chores each one of them has to do, and let them know that there is no television, computer or outdoor time until the list is done. This gives them the ability to decide what they will do when, and gives them a more satisfied feeling when everything is done.

Fiscal Responsibility

As soon as they are old enough, give your children the chance to earn their own money. Small children can do little jobs around the house for extra money, while older children can babysit, get a part-time job, mow lawns or walk the neighbor’s dog for some spare change.

Give structure to their earnings by forcing them to put some of it into savings and let them have some to spend as they would like. You’ll be teaching them a valuable lesson about money, and the next time they ask for something in the store, you can tell them to use their own money.


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